Saturday, 27 February 2016

Gift #506

Consistently happiness researchers report that being surrounded by loving friends is a top determinant for happiness!

You cannot change the people around you – but you can change the people you choose to be around!

While it’s good to give people who mess up a chance to make things right, remember it should be more like 3 strikes and you’re out – not 3,687,201 strikes and you’re out!

At a certain point it’s essential/self-loving to move on. You gotta ignore people who do crappy things to you. And you gotta forget about people who have forgotten about you.

Basically, stop stressing about people who don’t deserve room in your heart! Do what you can to let go and forgive them. All of your them’s. The more them’s you can forgive, the better you’ll feel! And yes – it’s very possible and very okay to forgive someone and still not want to spend time with them.

Keep in mind Jim Rohn’s belief that eventually you become the merging of the 5 people you spend the most time hanging out with! Choose your top 5 friends wisely.

Twinkle Thakkar ✨
Happiness and Health Coach

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